User blog:Swordbirth18/NTR vs Harem

Personally, I read/watch a manga/an anime (whether it has explicit content or not) and I must say, if I am on the MC's situation in a NTR scene, it may probably turned into school days where I slice the head of the girl that I love and cut his concubine's manhood... I would like to prefer harem because, it gives the girls/boys attention equally and not making others to make feel jealous and because it is more romantic than destroying other's relationship. To you guys, what set up would you prefer, an adulterous/infidelity/NTR anime or a harem anime?