User blog comment:B214/General Discussion/@comment-73.46.6.122-20160728192847/@comment-1359322-20160819053345

It doesn't mean Ise can understand everything the girl thinks. And if you're afraid of getting rejected then you have no right to fall in love in the first place. No risk no reward. If you give up once after getting rejected, it just means you don't love him as much as you think you do. My sister-in-law rejected my brother at least thrice before they eventually hook up and got married.

After the Raynare incident, Ise became afraid or rather traumatized, that's why he wasted needless time. But can you say the same about the girls? They were proactively seducing Ise, and not once did Ise push them aside. What is there to be worried about? Why didn't they ever try to take the risk that has a great chance of success?